Volvodynia- can you have a loving, fulfilling relationship without sex?

I know a married couple who has been married for more than 20 years. He's a paraplegic and has been since before they met. Sometimes your body dictates that you can't do something, and if you can't, you can't. If a person can't accept you without sex, then it's really the sex they want, not you. There are great guys out there who will love you for you, but you have to be really selective and careful to find them. Good luck!